A trip to Kerala with my parents and sibling that left my young mind with constant emotions and doubts or rather a feeling of terror deep down my gut. It was that frame that practically never left me till date. I find myself pulled back to the memories of that day every time I look at a married woman.
That day like the other days in Kerala, we were on an expedition to meet our some of our long distant or for that matter even close relatives who we hardly knew, relatives that only came alive when my mother eagerly introduced us to them and they would with their bright eyes look at us and always say the same things, “Oh how tall she has grown or Jaya? Don’t you feed her well? She is thin as a stick”. I would lower my eyes to those remarks and simply grin. But, today I was delighted that there would be kids to play with where we were headed. My mother’s uncles family lived at a short distance from her own maternal house where we were staying while in Kerala.
We had no car to travel there so our mom and dad would board us into one of the various Jeeps that rallied across the Jet black roads which lied beneath our house. Mama says this is the connecting national highway, NH something. You would always find a daring heart swinging on the rear end railing of the Jeep that sped across the U-pin drives of the hilly region that it was. Our jeep came to a screeching halt and we carefully deboarded. My mom’s face instantly lit when she saw the house where she had spent her childhood playing with her cousins. She led us to the old but magnificent house which still stood strong by the look of it.
Her cousins and uncle were already on the Verandah with broad smiles and expectant eyes. They were seeing us after almost a decade. I had gone there as a toddler earlier as mom said later. Soon there were greetings and hugs and laughter on jokes that seemed too private for only them to understand. We stepped into the house finally from a big round of chitter chatter on the porch itself.
Now was the turn for an even bigger round of savouries that are only seen in Kerala – The Pazhamporis and Acchappams, the Unniappams and Kozhalappams(My north Indian friends always wondered why all our delicacies were some or the other Appams), the Poovu(flower) cakes and the Bondas. And to top it all some ripe Kerala bananas cut into halves(well considered, what if you do not have any space left after having all the other stuff) were heaped up in a big round plate. You are not supposed to move until you have tasted at least one piece each of all that was served on the huge dining table. No prices to have known that this was just a welcome snack. The actual lunch will follow suit.
We had already had a round of introductions and friendly head nods by now. After a while though, my mom held us by our hands and took us to the depths of the huge house (For Mumbaikars every house beyond 3 bedrooms is, of course, a mansion. But this house indeed was huge).
To the end of the house was a dark lit room. My mom leads us to that room and I was more shocked that surprised to see a woman in her thirties or maximum forties sitting right in the middle of the room, on the cemented floor.
From the look of the room, it seemed like it was a loners den, that only this woman dwelled in that dark corner with just minimal furniture. Just a cot in one corner and a lantern kept on a wooden table on the other corner. The floor was cold to my feet, but she seemed not to bother.
She continuously kept shaking and hammering one of her legs on the ground while the other was pressed by the thighs to her chest. She seemed restless. Although, when her mother called out she looked up with a smiling face and turned towards us. She enquired, “Kazhiccho” (Had your food?)We nodded our heads in unison. After a while, she asked again, “Kazhiccho?”.
She kept smiling as we nodded yes. But she seemed less satisfied and kept asking us the same question repeatedly. My mom somehow exchanged a few pleasantries with her and lead us to the other room, soon to my relief.
Later that night when we were fast asleep as our parents believed, we heard them discuss her. She who unstoppably kept shaking her legs.
Her parents had named her Indira but hardly anyone called her so. She was Indu to all. Chirpy, lively girl jumping around the house in her long Dawani skirt and half saree. Her hair plated into a long braid almost hit her calves as she swayed around humming her favourite tunes.
Her face resembled the most beautiful flowers in their garden and the big black bindi that she wore would drive away all the ill eyes that laid on her beauty. Her eyes the shape of a fish and her whole lips always parted by a broad smile. She was beautiful beyond one’s imagination.
She was just turning 18 when she was betrothed to be married. Her Fiance was working overseas in an ice company as a supervisor. Anand. She blushed red to even take his name.
to be continued….. in part 2